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Dating as a Student

Skip the Small Talk. Go on a Date.

Trying to draft the perfect opening message to a complete stranger can feel stranger than simply meeting them. We are experimenting with a more human way for college students to date.

No swiping. No subscription to join. Every future date will be reviewed by a real person.

Join the Interest List

Start with your email.

We will send a more detailed application when the pilot is ready. That is the only form on this site. Just your email.

By joining, you confirm that you are at least 18 and agree to receive email updates about Dating as a Student. You may unsubscribe at any time. We will not sell or rent your email address. See our Privacy Notice.

The Problem

Why are we trying this?

A lot of dating apps begin with the same uncomfortable task: trying to think of something clever to say to a complete stranger based on three photos and a vague bio.

Then you spend days messaging, attempting to keep a conversation going, without knowing whether you would actually enjoy sitting across from each other in real life.

We think meeting may be simpler.

Have coffee. Get lunch. Share dinner. Take a walk somewhere public. If it works out, wonderful. If it does not, that is okay too. At least you had a real conversation.

The Process

How it works.
A flow, not a feed.

Start with your email

Join the interest list to hear when applications open at your school or in your area. No passwords or profiles yet.

Tell us who you are

When invited, fill out a private application. Tell us what you are looking for, your boundaries, and when you are actually free to meet.

Reviewed by a real person

Someone on our team reads every profile. We do not use algorithms to automatically pair you up. We look for genuine compatibility.

Accept or pass

When we find a potential match, we send you an invitation. Passing is always free. A fee only applies if you both agree to sit down together.

Early pilot participants may receive credits that make their first confirmed date free. We do not collect payments through the current website.

Read the full process

Human Review

Matched by people, not a feed

Dating as a Student is not built around endless profile browsing. Every potential introduction will be personally reviewed by someone on our team.

We do not claim to scientifically predict love or guarantee compatibility. We just look for a good reason for two people to have coffee.

We will consider factors such as:

  • What you are looking for
  • Age preferences
  • School and location
  • Personality
  • Interests
  • Relationship goals
  • Availability
  • Travel distance
  • Personal boundaries

Eligibility

Built for verified students

This experiment is intended for adults currently attending a college, university, community college, graduate school, or professional school.

When the full application opens, applicants may be asked to verify access to a current school email address.

School-email verification only helps confirm access to an educational email account.

Pricing

Free to join the interest list

There is no charge to join the interest list or complete the future application.

During the pilot, early participants may receive free date credits. Joining and passing on dates is always free. When both people accept a proposed date, a $10 coordination fee is charged to both parties. If someone does not show up, the person who did show up receives a refund. Pricing may change as the experiment develops.

Early pilot participants may receive credits that make their first confirmed date free.

Each participant would normally pay for their own food, drinks, transportation, and other personal expenses.

Where We Start

Starting locally.

The first pilot is being developed around students in the Sacramento and Davis region, including students from UC Davis, Sacramento State University, and Los Rios Community College.